Marriage is a holy binding of two individuals. Marriage takes a lot of commitment and adjustment to make them work. However, once you are bound in a holy matrimony, the promises are supposed to be kept for a lifetime.The real scenario, however, looks a lot different. Every passing day, we read and hear about incidences of divorce where the husband commits infidelity without his wife finding out and in some cases, the wife does find out and all hell is let loose. The relationship turns sour and ultimately, the marriage hits the rocks.
But have you ever thought about factors that induce married men to fall for other women? Let’s take a look at some of them;
More a friend than a lover: A man desires his woman to be his best friend, a good listener, a good talker and to be there beside him through thick and thin. Rather than being judgmental, she will accept him for how he is and will be his constant pillar of support. She will give him his own private space, yet be concerned about him all the time. She will love him unconditionally, despite all odds.
Moreover, men appear to be getting more impatient nowadays. They hardly give the needed time to make a marriage work, probably because they are so busy as breadwinners or because they have too many other choices of willing women to choose from to fulfil their fantasies, increasing their chances of infidelity.
He finds his favourite qualities in someone else: For no fault of yours, you may end up as unfortunate in this situation. Sometimes, men find some of their likeable qualities in other women apart from their wives. Their qualities surprisingly match and therefore, a great bond is formed between them. They connect effortlessly, can fathom the deepest truths inside them; understanding each other’s character, likes and dislikes; they find themselves alike in several aspects. This can lead the man to have an affair outside his marriage.
By Mercy Kukah