Tuesday 7 January 2020

TIPS ON HOW TO MOTIVATE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER


It is easy to lose spark when facing various challenges in life. Nowadays many people feel tired and exhausted due to stress, losing job or overload. If your partner is facing hard times, then you will have a great role to support them and help find the way out. If you really love your significant other, you should do your best to boost their confidence and motivate them when they feel down. 
Show your love and care for them to understand that they are not alone. You should be ready to deal with nervousness, because when we have problems we usually turn emotional and lose stability. 
SUGGEST SMALL STEPS 
Sometimes the way to your dreams can be long and complicated. You can find the goal unachievable, because of unexpected challenges and obstacles that arise along the journey. 
If your beloved doesn’t know what to do, where to begin or how to move forward, try to suggest them to start with small steps and actions. You can share your vision of the situation and suggest a list of small steps and people who can help them overcome tough times. 
GIVE THE EVIDENCE OF THEIR SUCCESS 
If your partner’s things are not going well, try to provide an encouragement for them by offering a pep talk. You are the one who should remind them how wonderful and talented they are.
You can give the example of their past accomplishments. Try to persuade them in their originality and abilities to make their dreams come true. This strategy will help you boost your partner’s self-confidence and self-esteem. 
FIND THE REASON
Try to determine the cause of your partner’s troubles. If it is possible, try to create a cozy atmosphere and find a suitable moment to talk to them and understand what is bothering them. When you know the reason, you can start on the emotional support instead of just criticizing and commenting that you see your beloved is changing in a bad way. 
REWARD EVERY ATTEMPT 
It is very difficult to start doing something new and unknown, especially if you feel despondent and depressed during the hard times. When your partner achieves some results, you should show your happiness and appreciation.
Enjoyable rewards make them more enthusiastic and relentless. When they see that their efforts and actions make you happy and meet your common needs, they will get an extremely high desire and motivation to become better.
It is desirable not to blame your beloved with every little detail, because all your efforts to motivate them to be successful will be in vain. 
FIND SOMETHING POSITIVE IN THEIR ACTIONS
If you have given your partner an advice to do certain small steps to go through hard times, you should feel responsibility for your actions and try to notice and accentuate all the good things that result from their actions and attempts.
 You can find different positive moments and changes in their deeds. If they go in for sports, you can remind how strong and wonderful they look. 

Nowadays even strong and highly successful people can face problems and lose motivation. If you have a persistent desire to overcome all difficulties in your family life, you should be brave enough to face harsh realities of life and be a single whole despite of everything. Moreover, you should support your partner if necessary.

BY STEPHANIE E. HEMEN

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