We live in a society where commitment seems to be so much of a sacrifice which makes many men to be seeking and praying for a good woman. As we all know; a woman plays a very important role in a man’s life. The type of woman a man marries determines the type of children one has and the type of life a man wants. A good woman comes with the following qualities:
· Family oriented: every one of us came from a family and we all know what family entails. Everyone is expected to be close to their family because they are the first people you get to grow up with and know before anyone else. A woman who values her family will definitely value yours; and this is very important when considering a future with a woman.
· Kind hearted: every man should look out for a woman who is thoughtful, loving and caring. These are attributes of kindheartedness. A woman who does small things for you for no other reason that she loves you; a woman who is warm from her heart is a woman every man should look out for.
· Intelligence: looks and honestly are what attracts most men to a woman before another thing. It is very difficult to spot a great personality from across the room. When conversations occur then you can be able to judge her intelligence. Hold real discussions about meaningful topics and hear what comes out of it.
· Empathy and understanding: A compassionate and a supportive woman goes a long way, to build a successful relationship. Your woman has to have such qualities, no man wants a woman who is “hard core” and not encouraging as life is full of challenges and you need a woman who is supportive in all areas.
· An ambitious woman: as you are pursuing your own goals and dreams, she will have her own as well. There is nothing wrong with a woman being ambitious. A matured woman should have a vision for her future and chase after it with all seriousness.
· Consistency: a woman should be consistent. Being consistent is a valuable virtue because it lets your partner know that you are really what you are. Consistency also means being your real self as there is nothing good in being predictable.
· Physical attraction: no doubt men are attracted to a woman’s physical look. There’s need for a physical attraction between two partners to kick off a relationship; this also plays a very vital part in holding it together.
· Religious status: this is one part a man shouldn’t neglect when looking for qualities in a woman. Be it any religion you are practising it’s very important that your woman should be religious as it helps in guiding, protecting and bringing up the kids in a God fearing way. So men while looking out for a slim, chubby fair looking woman look out for these qualities.
By Maimuna Bagudu