All
relationships, whether intimate or just causal or even business, take work to
make it work; ask the likes of Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva, or Nobert Young and
his wife of many years, Gloria Young. They will tell you it has not been easy,
but they always make it work instead of quitting.
It
is not the duty of the man or woman to just show the love alone, both parties
need to keep watering the plant of love on a daily basis; otherwise, that plant
will wither and die. It’s difficult for that fire to keep burning as the years
go by, but it’s possible for you to fall in love with your spouse all over
again with some few relationship tricks. Here are some of the tricks:
Turn off your phone or keep it on silent
Imagine
the setting: Maybe your husband or wife don’t always have that time to spend
with you and the kids because he/she is working in an oil company, or is the
manager in a reputable bank in Nigeria. So you somehow manage to plan and
cooked a delicious dinner at home. He or she comes home and the whole house is
oozing a nice aroma and the whole scene is beautifully decorated. You set the table and everything is going
smoothly, then your spouse gets a phone call and it takes forever for him or
her to drop it. When they do hang up the phone, it seemingly becomes super
glued to their hand and they never look up from the thing. Before you know
it, you suddenly lose your appetite. I think it is high time that Cinema rules
should apply in a relationship, whether courting or married, ladies and
gentlemen. Not only is it rude not to pay attention to the person you are with,
it is a serious mood killer.
Going to bed at the same time
This
is intimacy in true form. Going to bed at the same time is akin to reviving the
fire in your relationship, and this rule should apply to those who are married.
Enough of the games and feeling like you and your partner are strangers. What
are you doing that is so important that you are unable to go to bed at the same
time? Maybe it is unavoidable, like the graveyard shift at work. Maybe your
favourite programme is on the TV late. Maybe a lady is keeping you up and you
do not want your other half to find out about it. If it is avoidable, at least
try to make the effort of doing this. Your partner will be grateful you did.
A small gesture telling them you are thinking of them
It
is hardly rocket science, but knowing that you are in the thoughts of your
special someone makes you feel special. This relationship trick will make you
fall in love all over again. You can just decide to send your spouse a text
message when both of you are at work, saying you miss him or her and thinking
about him or her. This will brighten your spouse’s day and will make him or her
feel special.
Withhold that criticism
Criticising
can take the edge off that loving feeling. Before you start criticising your
partner, just think for a moment before uttering the words that cannot be taken
back. Even if it is minor criticism, instead suggest another way of
doing whatever it is your partner is doing. This can really help the
relationship by your partner doing better in your eyes, and you are now
satisfied with the way they do it.
A little gratitude goes a long way
“Thank
you” are two key words that can boost your romantic situation. In a
relationship, it is the same principle. If your beau/belle is doing something
for you and you do not thank him/her for it, how do you think he/she would
feel? Saying thank you wouldn't bring you down or take away a dime from your
bank account. You can decide to say it every day and trust me, your partner
will feel on top of the world because he/she has a spouse that makes him/her
feel appreciated.
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