Wednesday 28 October 2020

’’EYELINER” A TINY MAKEUP PIECE THAT ENHANCES YOUR LOOK.


If eyes are the window to our soul then some well applied eyeliner surely must act like an excellent window frame, enhancing, defining and giving our eyes more structure.  The eyeliner is perhaps one of the most important pieces of makeup we can own, for it is steeped in history and significance.

It was first documented as being used in Ancient Egyptian times. Not only did they use it for beautification, but also as protection from the gods and as a basic form  against the harsh glare of the sun for the delicate skin around the eyes.

Eyeliners  are is very important when wearing makeup, it has been and still. Back then they made their own eyeliner by grinding a combination of lead and minerals to create a powdery soot.

Now we are overwhelmed with creamy  long-lasting gels, and silky, fluid liquid options.

Here are five  Eyeliner application simple rule you must know.

Eyeliner rules, 

1. Make sure your eyeliner pencil or brush, if you’re applying a gel, are clean or freshly sharpened before you start.

2. The shape of your eye will pretty much dictate how you wear your eyeliner. Use the curve of your lower lash line to help you create the perfect flick on the upper lid.

3. Remember, the further in you bring your eyeliner line, the closer together your eyes will appear so if you want to create a bit more distance start your eyeliner a little further along your lash line.

4. Eyeliner is not just for the top lash line or under the bottom lashes, lining the inside of your upper and lower lash line creates just as much impact and is easier to master if you find the top of the lid tricky.

5. It’s not all about black eyeliner. Switch things up with a more muted brown or grey or jazzy metallics.

... An eyeliner trick that all the pro’s use is applying a flesh colored pencil along the bottom lid line. It creates the illusion of making your eyes look instantly more wide awake.

BY STEPHANIE E. HEMEN


”PATIENCE’’ AN ACT THAT GROWS AND MAINTAINS A RELATIONSHIP.



There is a saying that goes, ‘Patience is a virtue’ and this holds true for almost every sphere of life. A person must be patient enough to maintain peace in his personal, professional and his social life. Patience is a very important element when we talk about relationships.
By understanding the significance of patience you can create harmony in your relationships and this would transform your life by making it better.

Every relationship goes through ups and downs but by being patient during these tough times you would be able to take your relationship towards peace.  Do not raise your voice and let the other person communicate his/her thoughts to you.

 You must understand that communicating and expressing the feelings is important for any relationship to flourish, therefore you must let the other person express his or her feelings. You must also take your time to speak out your mind but in a very calm way. 

Yes it is true that it becomes very difficult to behave patiently during an argument but with a little will power and control over your mind you would be able to do it. Also remember that showing patience is a sign of maturity. There is no bliss in fighting and arguing with a person you love and value a lot.  Mature and sorted relationships are all about loving and understanding the other person.

Most importantly, you ought to understand that people are not perfect. There is nobody flawless in this world. Everybody is imperfect in some or the other way. Therefore you need to be empathetic towards the other person. If you feel that the other person is at fault then instead of getting irritated and aggressive, it is ideal to give the individual some time and make him or her understand what is bothering you. Instead of arguing, you must try to sort out things by being patient. 

  

BY STEPHANIE E. HEMEN

Tuesday 27 October 2020

VARIOUS WAYS TO HOLD YOUR HAND BAGS

 




We often spend a lot of time trying to pick out which bag to carry on the daily, and that preferred purse says a lot about you but not much second thought is given into the way we choose to carry it. Whether you like to showcase it in your hand, elbow crook, or across the shoulder, it’s actually not a random decision. it can say a lot about our inherent personality.

Over one shoulder with bag close to body;

“If you tightly grip the bag and pull it, it’s more likely fear, lower self-esteem, or concern of your purse being stolen.” You’re practical and need others to prove that they are worthy of your trust.

 

Over one shoulder with bag swinging freely;

Different from the hands-free look, your purse hangs freely on one side of your body, not your front. You are characterized by your spontaneous, carefree attitude and like to take life as it comes. People know you as being confident and self-assured. You like your style to show, but you still want a certain amount of freedom. You don’t put priority on designer labels and brand names; the swinging and open style indicates that you favor functionality over display.

  

In the crook of your elbow;

This approach depicts a flaunting of prestige and authority. You put priority on status and position, and can indicate that you are carrying a purse with a heftier price tag. While you may sometimes be referred to as “high maintenance,” you know what you expect to receive from the world.  it makes their body look bigger and matronly in photos. If it’s held out more from your body, a common style practiced by A-listers, it depicts power. You’re wearing the bag as if it’s a badge of honor or an award. You feel as if you’ve got a sense of superiority.”

 

This style exudes a more sophisticated and put-together quality. People think of you as being assertive, well-organized, and efficient. This is the most comparable to carrying a briefcase and can communicate the importance of the person’s job. Your ambitious attributes shine through, and you excel at focusing on the task at hand, probably because you’re armed with these things you keep in your purse to help you be more productive. People also tend to carry a bag this way when they want to attract more attention to the outfit itself—you don’t want your purse to be attached to it. Instead, the purse merely becomes a separate accessory to accentuate your clothing.


In front of body with both hands;

Body language these indicate shyness and a need to protect oneself. You may suffer from anxiety in social scenarios and prefer to stay out of the spotlight. “I see young women do this in public situations where they don’t know people or in stress situations, and if they are generally shy.


Cross-body with bag in front;

You want as much freedom of movement possible, coupled with a feeling of protection and accessibility. This method allows for the most convenience to be able to get into your bag, but until then you want to move through the world easily without feeling encumbered. “Function is more important than appearance in any cross-body bag,”



BY STEPHANIE E.HEMEN

Monday 26 October 2020

NORIGAE: As a priceless fashion accessory on the formal Korean traditional attire (Hambok)

 NORIGAE: As a priceless fashion accessory on the formal Korean traditional attire (Hambok) and can be worn with other clothings from different part of the world 



Amongst all the south Korean luxuries,  Norigae has been one of those piece of accessories I have always dreamt of acquiring.  It is a priceless beauty that comes in different shapes, colours and made from different luxurious silk and precious metals.  


Norigae is a Korean term which means a combination of decorative ornaments,  silken tassels,  intricate knots,  a jewelry accessory that is worn by women with the traditional Korean formal attire known as Hanbok. Norigae can be dated back to the Joseon dynasty.  Women from different classes wore the Norigae... from the Queens to the Commoners.  Different shapes and sizes signifies different occasions the Norigae was worn to as well as which season to wear it in. Norigae is hung from a woman's Jeogari goreum ( coat strings) or hanbok chima (skirt)... it uses fabric called "silk" and "whasum". A Norigae can be divided into four part: the ddidon (hangul) a hook (either separate accessory or additional knots). Norigae functions as a decorative pendant.  It is believed by the Koreans that, it is a Goodluck charm with the hope to bring something such as eternal youth,  wealth and many sons (depending on its shape). It has various shapes derived from nature or from everyday life which is divided into Samjacks and Danjacks.  


The main ornament for making norigae is usually gold, silver, jewels, and precious stones. The motifs of main ornament are cut down into 5 basic branches, such as animal, plants, daily objects, characters, and religious symbols. For example, the characters is auspicious Chinese character, like "壽" represents longevity. The religious symbols are motifs that represents Buddhism.



However in this modern day , people explore different traditional accessories in the name of fashion.   Norigae can be be mix and match with  African african beads or used to accessorize African fabrics to give it a different glamorous look. Others might use it it to accessorize formal shirts  and the Arabian black abaya.




BY HINDATU ABDULLAHI

BEAUTY OF BIG BELT ON OUR OUTFIT




Belts are one of the essential items in a lady’s wardrobe. It is very important because not only does it give fitting to an outfit, it also adds to the look. Until recently, most people fancied very small belts but the big belts are coming back, more so with strong force.

There are many ways to style your big belts and slay;

-Using a belt over your kimono or big blazers gives it more definition and shape. Don’t fold that shapeless blazer inside your wardrobe for it to waste away. Just get a big ass belt and wrap it around the blazers and it will give you the oversize trend vibe.

-Create a vibe with your evening gown by adding a statement piece belt to it. It kind of sounds weird to pair a belt with a long fitted evening gown but hear me out and try it. When choosing your statement belt, make sure to go for something very edgy. That will be easily spotted like a studded belt or a print belt better still an animal skin print, In favor of the season’s print. Adding a large accessory to a statement evening gowns makes it more dramatic in a good way. Ensure to do it the right way though.

-You can also tame a busy look with a big belt. Wearing an all patterned outfit and you’re feeling skeptical about the look? Just add a big belt to it, pulling it up your waist. It will immediately at a finesse to the look, breaking up particularly loud patterns and helping you incorporate a polished outlook.

-Big belts also raise your casual look a notch higher. There are sometimes you are dressed for a casual outing but you know your outfit doesn’t give you the “wow” factor you’re want and are used to. Maybe it a cute top and a high waist jeans or a plain cute dress? All you need is a belt. Pair that casual outfit with a belt, a big one and you’re good to go.

-Big belts set up your skirt also. I know you thought that belts were for just triyders and dresses but no. Belts can add to your skirt by taking it from okay to dope! These street style stars you see most times, don’t just do the needful but thrive on the extra. Your skirt can be fine on it’s own but just needs that belt is make it perfect. 


BY MAIMUNA BAGUDU

MAKE YOUR BATHROOM MORE ATTRACTIVE

 


 

When it comes to interior design, you don’t have to go down some complicated path, just keep it as simple as possible. Interestingly, simple things in life turn out to be the best of things. This also applies to figuring out how to make your bathroom more attractive. Just because there are lots of advices out there, doesn’t mean that you have to apply every single thing to one room in your home. Another reason for staying simple is that it’s cheaper and doesn’t make your room look congested that you feel you are having your bath in a cupboard. There are some great ways to enhance the beauty of your bathroom with minimal effort, and it really amazing how a few changes can make a big difference in your bathroom. Completely change the look of your bathroom and have your family and guests appreciate the fresh new look without you changing the entire room.

REGULAR CLEANING: No matter your busy schedule; endeavor to make out time to always wash your bathroom, make sure it is free from all forms of stains both on the wall, floor and sink especially after brushing your teeth. You will give germs opportunity to dwell in your bathroom if it is not regularly and properly clean. One thing is cleaning and the other is cleaning properly. In order to have a sparkling clean look, you can use a glass cleaner or furniture polish on your bath screen such as mirrors. Wipe off water on the floor of your bathroom after every shower you can also get a chemical for your tiles to retain/restore its sparkle.

KEEP AWAY PRIVATE ITEMS: Some things are meant for your eyes only, it doesn’t tell well of you when guests walk round your bathroom and find sanitary pads or personal items on the sink or floor of your bathroom. Clear everything apart from a few essential items that you make use of all the time. Make your bathroom less clustered for more space; it is wise to get a small basket that you can keep in a corner or under your sink for your dirt and any used/finished item. Ensure that the basket doesn’t find its way out to obstruct free movement around your bathroom. Don’t make it a habit to leave dirt in your bin basket for a long time before disposing it so you don’t cause your bathroom to have awful smell and become a no go area for visitors.

LIGHTING: Bathroom lights can make a whole difference to the look of your bathroom. Often times, if our bathroom look terribly it is either because the lights are horrible or there are no lights at all. A bright light will give your bathroom a bright and amazing look. Having a simple light dropping from the ceiling won’t be a bad idea. The whole idea is to make your bathroom more radiant, expose dark areas by giving enough light.

PAINTING: Not all paint should be used in the bathroom, there are specific paints for bathroom that can further enhance the beauty of your bathroom after adhering to the above instructions. Don’t hurry to paint your bathroom because you feel it is not important and shouldn’t be paid any attention. Your bathroom is as important as other parts of your home and must be taken care of. No one wants to hurry out of a cozy room, make your bathroom very attractive and no one who goes in will hurry out. A beautifully painted bathroom will help your bathroom to be warm and cozy at all times.


BY MAIMUNA BAGUDU

 

Thursday 22 October 2020

WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR A MAN TO CRY?



Today on Every day people, we will be focusing on the male gender( uhmmm), reasons are that the male genders are complicated and rigid in so many ways.

Men are known as the less emotional sex; (ladies I know you all will agree with me on this one) . They are supposed to be super heroes and bat mans (wink); the rock in the middle of storm, the James Bonds when there is an action to be displayed and unflappably cool no matter what the circumstance. Of course it’s not wrong for men to get emotional.

It’s so unhealthy to keep one’s feelings bottled up and shoved deep inside especially when that man is going through difficulties (which they all do). This can cause him to fall into depression and just because men are being taught while growing up that ‘’Big boys don’t cry’’, they die in silence rather than crying out.

So when is it okay for a man to let go off his bottled up emotions and crying?  

During the the cause of my research I decided to throw the question out there on my WhatsApp status just to get the views of men and women on the above topic; and guess what? i got the following responses.

 According to Bashir Mohammed commented saying: Men are expected to be very strong creatures that shouldn’t cry but are expected to just ‘’man up’’ and deal with whatever comes their way.

Summaya Abubakar a lady ,  commented saying: please they should cry so they don’t pile up aggression and descend on the wrong person.

Joy Jona wrote : Men should cry whenever they feel the urge, it is natural. While Victor confessed : Men are allowed to cry. We are not made up of stone.

Mr Ibrahim commented saying: when you lost your mom…… #period!!!

Zainab Aliyu  gave it a similar angle by commenting : when you lose someone you love

A rather funny remark came from Khadija Jega who said men should cry when they are guilty and their wive's confronts them. 

 

Although these comments are only opinions and certainly not an authority but one can be save to judge that there are instances when men are allowed to cry . Crying  is a natural instinct  and a beautiful emotional display that sometimes gives one an instant relief from pain and frustration. So if you feel like it, let it out . Don't worry about what the society would say . 

You can also  still send your thoughts on this topic by emailing : tozalimagazine@gmail.com


BY MAIMUNA BAGUDU

BEADS AS A TIMELESS WOMEN FASHION ACCESSORY

One of the most popular trends these days features on bead necklaces .  Nigerian women love their bead necklaces. Most of the bead necklaces we could find come with matching bracelets and earrings.


 

also beads can be of different type even if  a person doesnt like a matching color he could mix and match the beads with other colors like  for example if you dont need a full white color bead you can mix the white with red , blue or other colour . Beads looks very nice when you mix and match them with other beautiful colors. 




Most of beads designs are spiral,crystal beads,delica beads,gemstone beads,flat backs etc.  As many as they are , they come with bracelets made in the same technique and matching earrings.Most of the designs are most suitable for formal occasions and celebrations especially the crystal beads, you can see them shining like diamond at night. There are also small beads that you can wear anytime you want, as long as they fit your personal style.  
Beads making is very lucrative business in Nigeria because it's still an accessory used for high end traditional weddings  and other big gatherings. It also good  for children to learn how to assemble beads. It makes them creative, engaged and keep them busy . 
Beads are very simple to make and comfortable to wear.