SIGNS,THE MAN YOU ARE COURTING IS THE REAL DEAL!

In the modern-day dating world, it is one big conundrum to find a prince amidst countless frogs. Guys aren’t as wicked sharp as you may believe and actually let you know what’s up if you wake up and open your eyes.


Yet, for some reason, it is easier to ignore the truth and fantasize. Darlings! when a guy shows you who they are, do yourselves a favor and listen to him. Every moment we have is sacred so please love yourselves enough to wait for the right guy who deserves your magnificence. 

Here are signs that the guy you are courting is the real deal:

He’ll treat you like the goddess that you are. That means he will not take you for granted or play games with your heart. In essence, when a man cares about you and is a keeper, your pain will be his pain and he won’t bear to disrespect you or tarnish your spirit in any way. If you see any signs that he gets a kick out of hurting you or disrupting your peace, that is a huge red flag to give him the middle finger and go on your merry way to someone who deserves you! 

You will not be hidden from his friends, family, or anyone else for that matter. I understand if the two of you would like to maintain some form of privacy, but the guy who really takes you seriously will want to show you off. Transparency is key. If you sense that is he is trying to maintain his singledom and is only taken when in your presence, that is a sign right there that he is unsure, shaky, or cowardly. Get out
before he breaks your heart. 

The guy that is right for you will not lie. He will want to share things with you and be an open book, at least 99% of the time. I understand if he is a faulty human being and spews out a white lie here and there, just as you might as well. There is a difference between purposely lying for the sake of lying and mistakenly leaving out something you might care to know. I don’t care what this guy’s explanations are and you don’t need to have this type of relationship. It is not your job to fix him or beg for the truth. Liars are usually crazy anyway. Next!

He will be consistent. He won’t be an indecisive coward who is on one minute and off the next. It is either a yes or no dude! You aren’t the type of girl who waits around for a guy to make a decision about whether or not you are the one for him. You deserve someone who totally wants you and makes that clear through his unending, constant steadiness. Leave this unpredictable douche before he disappears for good, trust me. 

A man that is deserving of your attention and admiration will be emotionally and mentally stable.He will have emotional intelligence and be easy to communicate with. It is no fun dealing with someone who has a ton of unresolved issues that he sucks you into. Drama is not that fun when it’s an everyday affair. These types of relationships are frighteningly draining and will leave you gulping for air. So, look for men who are pretty simple and straight forward. Complex and dark isn’t the way to go.! 

Say goodbye before it’s too late and the damage has been done. Good luck finding love! In the meantime, keep slaying it girls!



BY STEPHANIE ERDOO HEMEN