The
little things you do, and the way you respond to your man when he does
something nice for you is one of the easiest ways to make him feel loved. Communicate
with him, understand him and go out of your way to do something special for him
now and then. Display your affection for him through sweet, little romantic
gestures and most importantly, tell him just how much you love him every now
and then. As the months turn into years in a relationship, it’s easy to
overlook the little gestures or even take them for granted. And just as you
start to take things for granted, your husband or boyfriend too would
simultaneously start to feel unloved and neglected in the relationship.
Sometimes, you don’t need words to show your love. Just use these 10 subtle
ways to make your guy feel special and loved, and he will realize just how much
he means to you, even if you don’t use a single word to describe your love for him!
1. Guys hate insecurity. If
there’s one thing that makes a guy feel neglected and ordinary, it’s when the
girl he loves treats him like he’s just another guy. Don’t ever neglect him or
give him less attention when you are talking to another guy, especially one who
your man perceives as a threat. If you are in love with him, never make him
feel insecure or threatened in the relationship. Always make him feel special
and let him know that he’s the most important guy in your life.
2. Stand up for him. When
you are in public and someone speaks disrespectfully to him, support your man
and stand up for him even if you think your man’s in the wrong. You can always
tell him in private about your own opposing opinions. When both of you are in
public together, he’d see you as his pillar of strength and he would be crushed
to see you oppose him or gang up on him with someone else.
3. Compliment him. Compliment
your man when he makes an effort to impress you. Be genuine in your
appreciation and commend him for being a good man, praise his achievements and
accomplishments and go easy on the negative criticisms. Your compliments matter
a lot to your guy, because he’d always take your opinions into considerations,
and it will make him feel good about himself.
4. Accept your mistakes. If
you make a mistake, be graceful enough to accept it. Avoid trying to manipulate
your man or tricking him into giving in or believing it was his fault because
your ego is too fragile to accept faults. He may not say it out loud, but he
may realize that he’s being manipulated and hate you for it. Learn to let go of
your need to be right every single time. It only makes you seem more human.
5. Give him your support. Let
your man know that you will always be there for him. If you see him busy
working on something or searching for something frantically, offer to help him
instead of just watching him while lazing on the couch. Offering your help, even if he
declines it, shows that you care about him and are always eager to help him out
of a fix.
6. Look your best: Look
good for your man, especially when both of you go out together. Dress up, smell
great and look fabulous in his arms. And each time his friend or colleague drops
his jaw in awe of you; your man will thank his lucky stars for dating a girl
who’s as awesome as you.
7. Surprise him. You
give him something nice on his birthday and every other special occasion,
right? Well, don’t stop at that! Surprise him every now and then with little
sweet gestures like movie tickets, or tickets to a game, a set of power tools
and other things that might excite him. Slip it into his hands when both of you
are having dinner or when both of you get into bed. The gifts may be inexpensive,
but your gestures, well, they’d make him feel like a million bucks!
8. Comparisons. Never
compare your man in bad light with other men, especially when you are trying to
make a point. It’s a low blow that will hit him hard and make him feel
miserable. He may already know his weaknesses, but when you point it out to him
by comparing him to some other man, he’d feel smaller and much emasculated.
9. Listen to him. Do
you ever argue over a point of view with your man? Heated debates are
completely acceptable in a happy relationship. But when he’s trying to explain
his point of view, try not to see red and yell at him. Listen to what he has to
say completely even if you know you are only going to disagree. Ignoring his
opinions will only make him feel like you don’t care what he thinks.
10. Communicate with him. Communication
in a relationship is one of the most important aspects of a happy relationship.
If you want your guy to feel loved and special, try to understand him better by
communicating with him. Play games with each other, discuss issues while
watching television, pillow talk in bed, and ask each other naughty questions
over the weekend. It’ll help you understand your man better, and most
importantly, it’ll make him feel like you really care about him and want to
understand him better.
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