Choices are decisions we make in our everyday lives; choices also makes us feel independent. But a wrong choice can ruin your career,your relationship or even your life. So we must choose wisely to generate joy in our lives. Although most times we feel confused making these choices, due to different options present it could be from what kind of food to eat to serious issues like deciding on a job opportunity or life partner. Under the pressure of making the correct
choice, none of our choices may seem right, how do we know how to make the right choices in our everyday life without regrets or complains afterwards.
These 6 rules will help you weigh your options in your everyday life to help you make that choice which will in turn play out in your favor.
Pay attention to signs: Road signals serve as directions so also are life guiding signals. Take heed to those occurrences prior to your decisions, you need to be turned in to know this signs. Anything can be a sign, a person you were just thinking about calling you,receiving an offer when you need it, etc. When you do recognize something as a sign, don’t dismiss it. Reflect on the potential message being delivered to you.
Take your own advice. You are your best teacher, if you can’t take your own advice; you’ve learned it in vain. Your experiences should fortify your wisdom and clarify your choices. If 10 years ago you knew what you know now, what would you have done differently? Always allow former events to dictate present decisions: What did a bad decision from a similar situation in the past teach you? If you take the same actions now, the same results will repeat themselves. What would you advise someone else to do if they shared an issue identical to yours?Take a sip from your own fountain of knowledge and take your own advice!.
Keep clean your conscience. A clean Conscience fears nothing this can also play out when making choices in our everyday life .No decision should stain your spirit. Do your best to act for the good of everyone, not just for your own good. Decisions that hurt others and only benefit you will eventually turn against you. Avoid been too desperate and impatient. Nothing keeps us stagnant like our own fear, impatience, and frustration. Moving forward with the
right choices means we must eliminate these emotions. If we weren’t afraid of anything, we would act with incredible courage. If we weren’t so impatient, we would wait until the right opportunities rolled around. And if we didn’t become easily frustrated,we would extend our perception.Understand that these feelings are impediments to the progress of your life and that when you eradicate them, your decisions no longer stem from your ego but from your highest self.
Always remember this rule never make a decision under
desperation.
Know your influences. We always love to consult our friends when making choices sometimes, have you ever wondered why we do this?Because we don’t trust our own decisions, we are sometimes afraid of the outcome, but little did we know that we have the right answers within us. So ask yourself: To whom am I listening, instead of listening to myself? Remember that people are naturally biased and
flawed because they’re dealing with their own dilemmas. Anyone can offer you their take on what’s right but no one can offer you what’s right for you—only you can do that for yourself!
Follow your intuition. In the words of Swiss writer Johann Kaspar Lavater, “Intuition is the clear conception of the whole at once.” Our intuition puts into perspective the entirety of a situation: it takes us beyond one moment in time and reveals how things will unfold in the future. The truth is that we already know exactly what we must do and what will happen, if only we follow our internal GPS. Intuition is what feels right inside, and it isn’t just some“gut feeling;” our instincts can reshape our lives. Following our intuition helps us realize that we have the power to make the right decisions. Engage your sixth sense for a heightened perception of what to do and what to avoid. Make one decision based on your intuition. Allow yourself to be instructed by your inner voice. Note the difference in results when you overanalyze versus when you intuit your way down the right path.
By Sophie Aigbomian.
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