PRACTICAL WAYS OF DEMONSTRATING HOW MUCH WE CARE

It is a lot of fun to show friends and loved ones how much we care; we often forget that words can help encourage or put a sparkle on someone’s shattered countenance.Maybe we don’t know the right words to use or how we can further show how we care about them other than mere spilling it. However, if you have not been expressing how much you care about people around you, these will serve as a guide on how to go about showing people that you care for them:

A SIMPLE HELLO: One of the easiest ways to show people how much you care is to send a simple hello! It is so easy to send a quick "hi" with our phones, email or other online tools. We have no excuse. Take a funny snapshot, send a joke or ask about how their day is going. Your message may get to someone at just the right time when they need it most. Pick up your phone and change someone’s mood.

HAND-WRITE SOMETHING: We are so “digital” that anything handwritten seems out-of-date. Sometimes, handwritten cards, letters or notes are super special. Drop someone a handwritten note or card(doodles included),and watch their smile spread as they get a wave of memory. You may even feel like a kid again! Address and post your note with an envelope to send via mail for an even better surprise.

BE HELPFUL: It is easy to forget to be helpful around friends.We become so comfortable around people that we miss opportunities to show our generosity. Make sure to always offer up help when your friend is stressed, or even when you are just hanging out at their house. Do not leave a mess! Be as helpful to a good friend as you would be to a new acquaintance.

BE ATTENTIVE: Listening and giving your full attention are some of the most meaningful ways to show someone that you care. Giving someone your ear wholeheartedly, understanding their point-of-view and sharing in a part of their hardship show how much you really care. If a friend is having a rough time, be sure to check in on them every couple of days. They will remember your thoughtfulness even when issues have been resolved.

BE THOUGHTFUL: People notice when you remember little things about them or their lives. Remember your friends’ special days such as birthdays, and which flavour of birthday cake is their favorite. You cannot remember everything, but remembering the little things can go a long way to make them happy. Did they tell you about a daunting presentation at work? Ask how it went later in the week.

PLAN AHEAD: You don’t have to always make last-minute plans all the time. Scheduling something ahead with someone shows them you care (especially parents or family members). Call before your week's plans are set, and ask if they have time during the week.You will feel great having scheduled important meaningful time, and will make those around you feel great too!
 
Constance Clement