LOVE AROUND THE WORLD

KEEPING A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

Relationship is more than just a game of life, yet most partners enter the playing field with no practical experience or any idea, but just for the fun of it. Some come to a decision that they can’t keep a stable relationship, perhaps, because of one painful personal experience or the other; they call it quits. But there are yet others who despite disappointments, carry on with their partners even though they may not be happy; they’d rather endure than be left lonely. Others keep on rolling the dice hoping that their luck will change and the game will get better. Whichever way you see it just know that all that glitters are not gold and irrespective of your differences in a relationship, there are some basic rules which both parties must learn to keep for a lasting relationship.

1. Learn to be Tolerant.

No two individuals are the same; even twins tend to misunderstood each other sometimes. It’s easy to see the best in people as long as they are doing what you like. But what about those aspects of their life styles you despise so much? It is important not to let little things irritate you. If your partner does things that annoy you, don’t look at them as faults but as unique character qualities. Tolerate the faults and love the benefits, unless you don’t wish for a long lasting relationship.

2. Make Memories Together.

It might be difficult to get the time to take a holiday break in a busy relationship, especially when your jobs are very demanding. But a different environment can really save your relationship by rekindling the spark that may be fading. And memories you have from your trip can be the stuff that keeps you stuck together when other pressures of life try to draw you apart.

3. Argue Less

Arguments are a part of life, but if you want to save your relationship from much of it, always consider your partner’s thoughts and opinions. If the argument gets too intense, it may be better to sleep on it. There’s an old adage that says, “Never go to bed upset”, but things usually look much better the next day. Never give an ultimatum unless, of course, you want it to be taken. When you consider your partner’s needs and wants, you’ll have a lot fewer arguments.

4. Spice up your Romance.

You don’t have to be in a new relationship to experience romance and intimacy. One of the ways to improve a relationship is to remember what you did when you starting dating and do it again. You probably exchanged gifts, took tours and went out for romantic dinner dates. You may think you know everything about your partner and if that’s so, why are things not working out anymore? Why aren’t you happy? Work on those fun memories which you both shared together and see your relationship getting back on its feet.

BY: OKOYE CHIZZY